Priorities, prioritites, prioritites!

I wish I spent as much time on my own website as I did on other people’s. Just looking at how little I’ve posted on this new site makes me feel disappointed. Especially since everything I did up until I published my OWN site has yet to be uploaded or written. Geesh, it seems impossible to keep up.

Then of course I look at what I’ve done SINCE I published my own site and well, it IS impossible to keep up lol. How on earth does anyone do it?

Social media is so incredibly time consuming on it’s own that it seems that’s where people look for information anyway.  Having a website often seems pointless to me since I mostly get contacted elsewhere. It’s the vicious circle of finding time to post on my Facebook so I can find time to post on my website so I can link people from my Facebook to my website!!! Of course that doesn’t even include Twitter, Meet-up, FetLife, Collarme, ALT, and on and on!

Sigh, back in the day it was MySpace or Facebook… now there’s no end lol. Why do people need to have all these different social medias? It’s quite ridiculous to me!

Okay, rant over… for now…

– CA

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I wonder who this is from?

Thank you,

Thank you,

Thank you Nico!

I LOVE getting amazing stuff in the mail!!!

I’m home, I’m home, I’m home!!!

Ah, I love MONTREAL!!!


I’m so happy to be a part of this years events. I’ll be in the dungeon with Vanessa from the ALCC and many other awesome folks. Don’t forget, the ALCC will be selling single and VIP tickets at the discount rate (not door prices) so contact them to get yours NOW – info@thealcc.org. Since “play” is my middle name, that’s what you’ll find me doing this weekend.

As well, I’m honored to be coordinating this year’s workshops!!! Have a question about topics, where to go, what to find at the MFW? Feel free to send me a message.

Sadly, I won’t be hosting my “long awaited, upscale, french maid catered play party” just yet. I had hoped to be ready to do an after-party for this awesome week event, but I just arrived back and there isn’t enough time to prepare. HOWEVER, I did hear that the lovely Mistress Hell Kitty is throwing one-hell-of-a party at her new play space in Old Montreal. Don’t miss that one, I know I won’t.

Well folks, see you ALL at Montreal’s BEST & BIGGEST FETISH EVENT!

Vancouver Fetish Weekend Rocked!

10514245_10152617826780429_6289463934764488879_oI had a GREAT time at this year’s Vancouver Fetish Weekend.

It was my first time and Vancouver’s second annual. So that means I only missed one year. I was impressed most of all with Rubber Doll’s performance, she has definitely evolved as a performer!

Sadly, my complimentary VIP pass didn’t include the cruise so I didn’t get to go. They missed a GREAT player aboard their ship that’s for sure. But, I ran into my friend Eddo from New York and his lovely new lady friend (love you!), so it more than made up for it. Oh yes, and of course you too JB, it was super fun to run into you again… you need to quit smoking FIRST and then maybe we’ll talk lol. And you need to get the hell out of Calgary!!!

My amazing friends took incredibly good care of me while I stayed at their place for the weekend. I finally had the opportunity to spend some time revisiting lovely Vancouver.

Thanks to everyone who made the weekend amazing!

– Contessa

I’m presenting at the ALCC – May 10th, 2014

imagesHi folks, I will be offering a full day of workshops at the ALCC in Montreal this Saturday. You can attend all workshops for a special price of $50 for the full day. Check out the ALCC website for full details and info. CALENDAR

Here are the workshops I will be presenting:

12:00 – 13:00 CFNM (Clothed Female Naked Male) $20
14:00 – 15:00 Sissy Maid Training $20
16:00 – 17:00 D/s relationships $10
17:30 – 18:30 Starting a Professional Domination Business $20
I would love to have a lot of folks willing to participate in the CFNM workshop so come out, come out wherever you are!
– Contessa

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